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Read this if you're new (or bored...).
2005-05-04 - 4:30 a.m.
Abortion is controversial
I wrote some notes on a passage from bell hooks's "Feminism is for Everybody," and thought I'd share the portion I wrote on Abortion. I figured my blog wasn't controversial enough, you know? Anyway: I found her views on abortion slightly problematic. Personally, I believe abortion is morally wrong after the fetus has reached personhood. I don’t know when that happens, so I err on the side of caution and call it implantation. That said, because I know the state of birth control and education, I think abortion has to remain legal at least through the first trimester, and at least until sex education is mandated (if they can mandate gym, they can mandate sex-ed) and birth control is more readily available and destigmatized. I respect women who think criminalizing abortion is oppression; I respect women who think legalizing it is murder. I respect men who have informed opinions and get mad when they’re told they’re not allowed to have an opinion at all. I personally think the reality is somewhere in between, and it would be nice if God would point Her Almighty finger down and say something like “I put the soul into the baby on day 65, so please behave accordingly, and by the way condoms are a good thing.” I feel a lot of compassion both for the thousands of women who’ve had to make that choice, and for the thousands of people who were never born. I don’t think I could get an abortion unless my life was in danger; I don’t think I would use the morning-after pill unless I had been raped. I’m not everyone, and I’m in a situation where if I were to get pregnant, my partner and would shuffle our plans, pool our resources, and do not as well as my parents, but better than most of my cousins. I would be happy if third-trimester abortion was made illegal, because if the baby can survive, then why not just induce early and put the child up for adoption? (I also think more white families should be open to adopting children of color rather than holding out for blonde children). I’m idealistic, though not as much as some – I don’t know how many times I’ve simultaneously agreed with my boyfriend and insisted “It’s not that simple!" I consider myself a feminist, and I don’t like to be told that I can’t be anti-abortion (which, to an extent, I am) and an advocate of feminism (which I also am). To be fair, I don’t call myself pro-life. I think abortion should be limited (along with the education and birth-control caveats I mentioned), I have mixed feelings on the death penalty, I’m not a fan of euthanasia but I can see the sense of assisted suicide or euthanasia as requested in a living will, and while I think most wars are appalling, there are times when something must be done, and a difficult decision must be made – how does one choose between going to war and allowing genocide? And whose business is it to make that choice? (When all is said and done, I suppose it’s good that I’m not Catholic)
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